Why Stretch Marks Happen & How to Love Them

The miracle of motherhood leaves not just tiny handprints on our hearts, but sometimes, unexpected marks on our skin. Loose skin, stretch marks, and wrinkles can join the rollercoaster of emotions postpartum, whispering doubts about our pre-baby bodies. But mamas, let's reclaim the narrative! This blog is a celebration of resilience, a space to share stories, and a roadmap to rediscovering your confident skin.

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5 Reasons Why Stretch Marks Happen?

Stretch marks are common during pregnancy and appear as purplish or reddish streaks that eventually fade to silvery lines. But why do they happen? Here's 5 reasons why stretch marks happen:

1. Collagen and Elastin: These vital proteins are the skin's building blocks, providing its structure and elasticity. During pregnancy, your skin stretches tremendously to accommodate the growing baby. While collagen production increases to some extent, it can't keep pace with the rapid expansion, leading to thinning and weakening of the skin's supporting framework. Elastin, responsible for skin's "snap-back" ability, also experiences damage, further contributing to loss of elasticity.

2. Hormonal Fluctuations: Pregnancy hormones like estrogen and cortisol play a role in skin changes. Estrogen stimulates collagen production, but its levels plummet after delivery, hindering skin's ability to repair and bounce back. Cortisol, released in response to stress (common during pregnancy!), can break down collagen further, worsening the stretch marks issue.

3. Genetics: Your genetic makeup plays a significant role in determining how well your skin recovers from stretching. Some individuals naturally have higher collagen and elastin production, and their skin rebounds better after pregnancy. Others may be predisposed to weaker connective tissue, making them more susceptible to stretch marks.

4. Weight Gain: The amount of weight gained during pregnancy also influences the extent of stretch marks. Rapid weight gain, especially around the abdomen, puts more strain on the skin, leading to greater stretching and potential for lasting laxity.

5. Age: As we age, natural collagen and elastin production decline, and skin gradually loses its elasticity. This makes women who get pregnant later in life more prone to experiencing stretch marks after delivery.

Remember, stretch marks are a badge of honor, a testament to the incredible journey you've been on. By understanding the science behind them, we can move beyond self-doubt and embrace the beauty of our changing bodies.

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How Real Moms Embrace Their Changing Skin From Pregnancy

Instead of seeing their stretch marks as flaws, real moms are flipping the script and embracing them as unique stories etched on their bodies. These marks tell tales of strength, motherhood, and the incredible journey of creation. 

Check out these beautiful anecdotes that show how real moms find acceptance for their stretch marks. 

The Tiger Stripes Take Wing
"My 'zebra stripes' still proudly roam my two-year-old's former real estate. They're like a battle map leading to the greatest treasure – my son! Sometimes the stares feel uncomfortable, but then I remember they tell a story, ours. And that makes me fierce." - Sarah, mom of two.

The Shrinking Balloon
"After my daughter arrived, my tummy resembled a deflated beach ball. It felt alien, like a forgotten land on my own body. But with consistent healthy eating and exercise, it started to regain its shape. It's not the same, but it's mine, and I'm learning to rediscover its beauty." - Emily, mom of one.

The Sisterhood of the Stretchy Skin
"In my postpartum support group, stretch marks is a regular topic. We compare notes, share tips, and even laugh about it together. Knowing I'm not alone in this wobbly journey makes it so much easier. We're a tribe of warriors, bound by stretch marks as our war paint." - Jessica, mom of three.

The Unexpected Silver Linings
"Okay, this might sound crazy, but my stretch marks opened doors! I discovered belly dancing, and it's liberating to move my body in ways I never thought possible. My wobbly tummy is now a source of joy and creativity." - Maya, mom of twins.

The Journey of Acceptance
"It took time, but I've finally embraced the changes my body underwent. My stretch marks is a testament to the incredible feat of creating life. It's not a flaw, it's a badge of honor. And you know what? I'm pretty badass." - Olivia, mom of four.


5 Ways to Love Your Postpartum Belly (and reduce deeper stretch marks)

So even if we change our perspective of stretch marks and think of them as little whispers reminding you of your body's amazing journey, we still might want to help reduce them. It's also okay to want to take care of your growing belly and help reduce deeper stretch marks...and put TLC into your growing baby bump.

So, here's the lowdown on five ways to keep those whispers soft and sweet and reduce the risk of stretch marks. 

1. Fuel up from the inside out

Water is your skin's best friend! Aim for 8-10 glasses daily to keep your skin plump and hydrated. 
Fill your plate with colorful fruits, vegetables, and whole grains. They're packed with antioxidants and vitamins like C and E, essential for collagen production and skin repair. 
Don't skimp on healthy fats! Avocados, nuts, and oily fish are rich in omega-3 fatty acids, which research suggests can improve skin hydration and elasticity. 

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    2. Move Your Body

    Even gentle walks or prenatal yoga can improve circulation and give your skin that healthy glow. Plus, it's a mood booster!

    After your little one arrives, listen to your body and slowly ease back into exercise. Pelvic floor exercises, walking, hula hooping and baby yoga are great ways to say hello to movement again in your core. 

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    3. Do a Daily Tummy Massage in Pregnancy & Postpartum

    Massaging your tummy is helpful to increase circulation, but to help heal or prevent the damage of stretch marks, you need to go beyond your regular moisturizer. Our Toning Tummy Balm penetrates deeply into the layers of the skin, and our specialized blend of oils helps tone excess skin. 

    This special product was created in partnership from a Tummy/Core Physical Therapist who wanted her clients to do daily tummy massage. We worked on this recipe for 6 months and finally come up with a nurturing balm that both reduces the look of stretch marks, activates muscle tone AND smells like you've come straight from the SPA!  This amazing aroma makes you feel relaxed and connected to your incredible body.

    This Toning Tummy Balm isn't just a stretch mark whisperer, it also gives your C-section scar a big ol' hug, reducing redness and making it feel smoother. Talk about a multi-tasking marvel! Toning Tummy Balm reduces stretch marks


    4. Be Mindful of What You Say to Yourself In The Mirror

    Self-Love is the Best Medicine! Remember, your body has accomplished an incredible feat! Be kind to yourself and focus on all the amazing things your body can do. This 2023 study in the journal Body Image found that positive body image is associated with better mental and emotional well-being. 

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    Mamas, your body has performed a miracle. Let's ditch the unrealistic expectations and embrace the beautiful tapestry of your postpartum skin. It tells a story of strength, love, and the sheer magic of motherhood. Now, go forth, shine your radiance, and remember, you are beautiful, stretch marks and all!


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